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I don't have any kind of issues with having work done. IMHO, it's totally up to you and, within reason, do what you want.

However, I came across this story this week and have been thinking about it ever since. What do you all think?

Plastic Surgeon Weds Woman for 'Potential,' Performs 8 Surgeries on Wife - International News | News of the World | Middle East News | Europe News - FOXNews.com
- November 7th, 2009, 09:33 am
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Well, I could go on and on about what a jerk he is, but the fact is, she allowed him to do this to her. It sounds like they deserve each other and whatever comes along with this transformation.

But an F cup? Seriously???

Okay, I'm done now.
- November 7th, 2009, 09:49 am
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I haven't read the article yet but just from the headline I'm thinking to myself "did she do this to get free surgery?" Maybe she had a poor image of her body and marriage to a plastic surgeon was the only way she could get all the work done on her body without the expense.

He's got his share of problems too. He may have had a "perfect" image of her and the only way to get this "perfect" image was to marry her. She may not have agreed to all the surgies without the marriage.

Either way they both need some kind of counselling to find out why they needed the marriage to make her perfect.
- November 7th, 2009, 10:16 am
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brneyedangel wrote :
Well, I could go on and on about what a jerk he is, but the fact is, she allowed him to do this to her. It sounds like they deserve each other and whatever comes along with this transformation.

But an F cup? Seriously???

Okay, I'm done now.
I know three women who had F cups. This breast size was very uncomfortable for these women (back aches were their major complaint); all three eventually had surgery to reduce and they feel much better now.

I don't know if this woman knows what she got herself into with this size.

My ranting is over now too.
- November 7th, 2009, 10:19 am
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I know three women who had F cups. This breast size was very uncomfortable for these women (back aches were their major complaint); all three eventually had surgery to reduce and they feel much better now.

I don't know if this woman knows what she got herself into with this size.

My ranting is over now too.
I suspect she's going to find out!
- November 7th, 2009, 10:22 am
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Sounds like the plot of a horror movie.
- November 7th, 2009, 10:31 am
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Reminds me of The Bride of Wildenstein - whatever happened to her?
- November 7th, 2009, 01:55 pm
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brneyedangel wrote :
I suspect she's going to find out!
Hopefully it's not too late. There was a huge kaffufle here in Canada a few years ago about breast implants and how they can cause cancer and other diseases if they happen to open up while they're inside the body. I'm not sure if they're any safer now, but I wouldn't want to be the one to find out.
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Sassafras54 wrote :
Sounds like the plot of a horror movie.
Halloween is over - the movie has to wait til next year.
- November 7th, 2009, 05:45 pm
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Reminds me of The Bride of Wildenstein - whatever happened to her?
She's still around, saw something on TV about her within the last couple of months. Sad.
- November 7th, 2009, 05:54 pm
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