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Are you nagging your partner to death? If so, you could be major strain on your relationship. Learn how to get what you want without being a major nag.
- February 26th, 2009, 07:46 am
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Both parties must be truthful, lovely, and kind to each other.


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- February 26th, 2009, 07:47 am
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For some people that have to be constantly asked or reminded to do things, it is a form of being passive/aggressive by not doing them.
- February 26th, 2009, 07:59 am
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Nagging is ANNOYING. Say it once and than never again LOL!!
- February 26th, 2009, 11:08 am
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Withhold sex until he does what you want?!
- February 26th, 2009, 02:36 pm
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Most people learn to TUNE OUT after being told the same (negative) thing five...six times. So nagging is COUNTER productive.
- February 26th, 2009, 02:44 pm
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I_have_the_simplist_of_tastes_ wrote :

For some people that have to be constantly asked or reminded to do things, it is a form of being passive/aggressive by not doing them.
This is not necessarily true. I have read that men, when under stress, may forget to "pick up milk on way home from work". When this "oversight occurs" it may be best to.....let it go. (pg225 of book titled, When Mars And Venus Collide)".....Together we can overcome the tendency for men to become more passive and women to become more demanding....."


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- February 26th, 2009, 02:44 pm
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Scotch wrote :

Nagging is ANNOYING. Say it once and than never again LOL!!
Iknow a prayer titled, Ten Rules For A Happy And Successful Wife, and rule number 2 is "don't nag". Rule number 1 is: "avoid arguements, your husband has his share from other sources."


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- February 26th, 2009, 02:45 pm
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Withhold sex until he does what you want?!
I have read that this is not a good idea.


I wish you well.
- February 26th, 2009, 02:46 pm
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We need to learn how to motivate each other to do what needs to be done. Everyone has buttons to push that willyield either positive or negative results. It is all in the way that you ask. Being demanding will get you nowhere.
- February 26th, 2009, 03:00 pm
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