I commend you for trying to deal with your porn addiction... I would encourage you to read Every Man's Battle nad possibly find a church near you offering it as a men's study group...that should give you access to men who have overcome and to men in the middle of the battle... along the way I pray you realize how damaging porn is, as it destroys any feelings of loyalty that your wife needs to be intimate with you..not to mention as sin, it also seperates you from God... the good news is that He is forgiving. Love and Respect is a great read on what your wife needs to feel loved and to offer you respect... your viewing of porn is unloving and disrespectful to her.. I pray she understands forgiveness and that you can humble yourself to sincerely ask her for forgiveness for the hurt this addiction has caused

Sad and confused...I look to the left and see "should I confess my porn addiction" and the answer to that is yes. She knows it, but you need to admit it outloud. It is just like God sees us sin, he knows it, but until we confess, we cannot be forgiven. I hope things are working out for you. I feel you are repentant. Best wishes!

you two need a space to feel and think things through. Hey.. can you be extra patient with her and extra forgiving and extra understanding and one more... with extra listening ear/ or heart... perhaps she needed those

You are not going to like what I have to say. I am a 52 year old woman. I have experienced the resentment. It does NOT go away. As much as I tried to get along, to make myself be affectionate.....inside I felt hateful. And, of course, every so often the anger would show it's ugly head. Woman do not heal after being emotionally betrayed. You say you only cheated on your wife through porn. Do you realize how humiliating that is for a woman? It means she doesn't measure up..period. I have recently divorced after 30 years of marriage. Both, my husband, and myself tried to ACT as if we had a normal marriage...but, the negatives far outweighed the positives..that was the deciding factor for both of us. I wish you well.